Do you have one or do you want one, but don’t think you’ll be able to keep it?

Do you have a target? How much weight do you want to lose, or do you just want to change your body shape?

What timeframe have you set to make those changes?

Those things, on December 31st, are critically important to know. But making those choices are the easy part. The real challenge comes from every day when you are faced with the choices within your life and you choose the option that follows the path to achieve this goal.

This is why so many people fail at keeping their New Years resolutions. They make the resolution easily, but doing what’s required is too hard.

Don’t be one of the people that are unable to stay with their goals alone. Join us in the Butterfly Transformation 30 day Program. We can help you choose, start and stick with your goals!

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The reason we fail

December 24, 2009

The new year is almost on us. With the coming new year comes the inevitable new years resolution. Will this years be the same as last years?

So are we set up and are dedicated to losing weight in 2010, just like we did in 2009, and 2008, and maybe even 2007. How come we failed? What are the chances of failing again this year? Maybe you won’t even bother this time because you expect to fail. What a shame that is.

If we find our goals difficult, be they new years resolutions or just a daily goal to get some exercise it’s because we under estimate the time it will take to achieve and over estimate the ease of achieving it. Think back to the goals you didn’t achieve and I’m sure you’ll discover this.

The only reason you can fail a goal, is to set a timeframe. Isn’t having the body you want worth spending the rest of your life for? You have to spend it in your body, what better way than in a body you enjoy being in? Imagine how good it will feel when you can look at yourself naked in the mirror and smile? Or how good it might feel when someone else looks at you in just that way when you’re dressed up for a party?

As the Butterfly Transformation Program describes, setting goals doesn’t have to be difficult. To set a realistic goal, and sticking to it, only takes effort to do one step or one day at a time.

The purpose of exercise

December 17, 2009

There are many little bits of knowledge I teach to those that will listen. One that comes up again and again is the purpose of exercise.

The purpose of exercise is not to burn calories. Life is not meant to be an endless struggle to expel the more calories than you take in.

The purpose of exercise is to enjoy moving your body.

Suddenly, the idea of exercise stops being about the joyless fight against calories and becomes actual fun. Something you want to do, not something you should do. (In the Program, I talk a lot about things that we ‘should’ do, and how destructive they are to your goals)

As you move your body, your body naturally adjusts to help move your body in that way. If you ride a bike, your body shapes itself to help you ride a bike. In addition, the more active you are, the more active you want to be.

Exercise is a side effect of being alive and healthy, not something that’s tacked on when you’re in the mood and have the time. It’s something that you want to do, and feel lacking when you skip it.

The question then becomes; what’s stopping you from being active?

In a post some time ago, I talked about the difference between setting goals and achieving them.

There is a bunch of research that shows that everyone, when setting a goal, underestimate what they can achieve in 5 years and over estimate what they can achieve in 1 year.

What does this mean for you?

It means set your goals, but realise you might fail on your short term goals, but achieve your long term goals sooner than you expect. Remember this next time you set a goal to lose weight in a few months and don’t reach your goal. Relax and acknowledge your failure, but keep moving towards your goals.

As I discuss in my program, you will fail in your goal sometime. You will cheat on the diet, skip an exercise day, eat that extra piece of cake. Knowing this in advance allows you to plan for it, and not throw out your entire goal just because you’re human.